Five days after my breast was removed

6 minute read. It has been five days since my left breast was removed. I went into surgery at 3:30 on Tuesday afternoon.  My surgery took 2 hours longer than expected.  Waiting must have been terrifying for my family.  The surgeon had to remove more lymph nodes than expected because cancer had spread there.   I… Continue reading Five days after my breast was removed

“…I had less to decide than to remember.”

I have a surgery date!!!!     December 11, 2018. It feels so, so good to have a surgery date.  FINALLY, something that is known and concrete!  The uncertainty was excruciating. I never knew how much making commitments meant to me until suddenly I felt I could not make any commitments or plans, because at any… Continue reading “…I had less to decide than to remember.”

Kimchi, blankies, cash, weed, and cookies

Friends keep dropping by gifts or sending them home with Brian.  Russ and Allison bring a big jar of Russ’s homemade kimchi. Allison stops by with pastries.  MK sends cookies home. A package comes in the mail: The Cancer Diaries by Audre Lorde from Dartricia in Atlanta.  Brian’s mom Susan sends a cozy blanket and… Continue reading Kimchi, blankies, cash, weed, and cookies